sacred love
1 Corinthians 13:4-7
Grace and peace be with you right now friend! Romantic relationships are incredible—until you realize Hollywood skipped the part about dirty socks on the floor, conflicting Netflix preferences, and “what do you want to eat?” turning into a 45-minute discussion.
Love, as God designed it, is far deeper than butterflies and Instagram-worthy date nights. It’s about commitment, selflessness, and a love so real it reflects Jesus to the world.
expectation vs. reality: the love story nobody told you
We’ve all been there—dreaming of a love that feels straight out of a movie. But unrealistic expectations set us up for disappointment. God’s blueprint for romance isn’t built on Hollywood magic; it’s rooted in something unshakable—His Word.
Let’s be real: Love gets tested. There will be moments when patience runs thin, forgiveness feels hard, and selflessness isn’t easy. That’s why 1 Corinthians 13:4-7 isn’t just a cute wedding verse—it’s the foundation of a Christ-centered relationship:
"Love is patient, love is kind. It does not envy, it does not boast, it is not proud. It does not dishonor others, it is not self-seeking, it is not easily angered, it keeps no record of wrongs. Love does not delight in evil but rejoices with the truth. It always protects, always trusts, always hopes, always perseveres."love in action: in real life
Love is patient → When your person takes forever to text back or still doesn’t understand your coffee order.
Love is kind → Even when you're in a disagreement and you really want to be right.
It does not envy → When they get the job, the opportunity, or the attention, and you learn to cheer instead of compare.
It is not easily angered → When they mess up, leave dishes in the sink (again), or say something they shouldn’t. Grace > Grudges.
Love keeps no record of wrongs → Because "forgiveness" isn't just a word—it’s an action.
keeping God at the center of your love story
The best relationships don’t just happen—they’re built with intention, prayer, and God’s truth. Here’s how:
Forgive quickly, love deeply. Holding onto resentment is like drinking poison and expecting the other person to get sick. Let grace lead.
Pray together. A couple that prays together, stays together. Period.
Seek purpose over perfection. No one’s perfect, but when both of you chase after Jesus, you’ll always find each other at the center.
For the Singles: God’s timing > Your timeline. Don’t settle. Grow in your faith, heal from past wounds, and trust that He knows your heart’s desires.
For the Couples: Keep Christ at the core. Talk to Him about your struggles, celebrate your wins in prayer, and love each other the way He loves us.
true romance grows when God is at the center
Real love isn’t just about how they make you feel—it’s about who you become together in Christ. Commitment, grace, and faithfulness. That’s the kind of love that lasts. Amen!
in harmony,
nancy
Pulse Check:
Spend 10 minutes in prayer with your partner or pray for your future partner every day this week.
